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Is finding love important to you?
Topic Started: Apr 24 2015, 07:38 PM (1,123 Views)
Silva
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Terribly important, so most of the time, I keep on thinking I've found it when in fact I've found someone who will cheat on me within a year or two every time. Or some other thing happens. Doesn't help that it's often long distance, and now I've truly stopped doing that for months things aren't really improving, just not getting fooled into delusions and that's it. Delusions, at least are pleasant for a while, I'll say that.

Sooner or later maybe luck will win out. Not likely to happen if I never want to leave my room though (I go out about once a week, know no friends in my town anymore save one, and I never really talk to strangers). Yeah, this has been a source of much grief on my part, but we all do what we can to get on in life.
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Neshi
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It's so sad Silv that you're closed in your room most of the time.. Outside world should see you more often! There's need for people like you! I hope you'll find more reasons and motivation to change your situation. Fortune favors the brave! Posted Image


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I don't believe in soulmates nor do I believe each individual is destined to be taken or remain a loner because love is a choice. Each of us has our own rights whether to seek love or not. Love doesn't have to be in a romantic sense. Personally, I love my family and friends and it is nice to have the emotional support from them.


Exactly, love is a choice. Everything depends on us, our actions, our decisions.. they will show if we are meant to be alone or with someone by our side.
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I don't like it. Sorry to be so straightforward, but I don't like the drama, nor do I see the point of going through a romantic relationship.
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Diego, the mentor
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It is important for me; it always has been and will always be.
I had a lot of blunders and mistakes in my early teenage years, I was friendzoned because I was waiting for the perfect timing, I got so focused in chasing a girl that I got oblivious that other girl was interested in me (It took me years to realize it), but I donīt regret any missed chance because they all taught me something that made me have a solid relationship.

I have always been a romantic, but I was giving up on the idea of a one true love when I fell in love with my girlfriend; I didnīt expect it, I didnīt chase her, we just started doing stuff together, talked and did homework together, I didnīt see her as a possible girlfriend until she danced at her birthday, one day I offered her my hand to get out of a bus, and didnīt let go, I just knew that I loved her and one day took all my courage and asked her out, and she felt the same way.

I believe that the main reason our relationship is awesome is because we both think of each other as a best friend and lover, she can talk all kind of crazy dangerous stuff and she knows Iīll be there and just listen, listen even if itīs her darkest demons, and I trust that she will be there for me, like she has always been.

What I have with my girlfriend is something that I would dare to care true love, itīs not just attraction like the other girls ithat I have been interested in my past (and present and future); it took me so long to realize that true love is more complex that attraction; which is a relief because even in a relationship I still get attracted fairly easily but I know I wonīt do anything wrong because Iīm not willing to risk love for attraction.
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cipher
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Diego
Apr 26 2015, 04:30 AM
true love is more complex that attraction; which is a relief because even in a relationship I still get attracted fairly easily but I know I wonīt do anything wrong because Iīm not willing to risk love for attraction.
That is key, and I feel like I know it in my head but in actuality am still not there yet in practice. Thank you for sharing your story man!
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Silva
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Neshi
Apr 25 2015, 07:49 PM
It's so sad Silv that you're closed in your room most of the time.. Outside world should see you more often! There's need for people like you! I hope you'll find more reasons and motivation to change your situation. Fortune favors the brave! Posted Image
That's very sweet, thank you. -hugs- Although, I don't really know what you mean by "people like you". I have very little to offer to the world or I would be employed by now, it's certainly not for lack of trying.

It's funny you mention bravery - I don't really have any problem being courageous in other situations, even (in the past) in physical danger. I understand conflict, but talking to strangers is just impossible for me unless they fit like a glove, and there's no other connected group for me to join that I seem to be successful in and link up to others. I just end up outcast or distanced one way or another like a bad smell. So the natural response is to stay inside and give up in frustration.

I did get out and about today but it was my once a week as usual. It was refreshing and nice to feel the wind and catch up with my one friend in town.

Although, the topic of me moving out to share a house with him in a much bigger city came up at that very brunch table. I do think I'd perish in such a change of lifestyle, but on the other hand I might just have to throw myself in the deep end or nothing will ever change. I do want to meet the right lady, and make lots of friends, but it's impossible in this town, it really is.

So in a few months, it'll be time to try something very drastic and new, I think. Since the alternative is staying in this small town and knowing no one, and that's no condition to find love in...
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cipher
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I think you will not perish. If anything you will come out stronger.

And by "people like you," I can't speak for Neshi, but I think you have a lot to offer. Employment is not necessarily a good measure of a man. I've seen shitbags in important positions, and I've met lots of great people in humble situations. There is so much more to a person than the work they are currently in. Who knows what you could be doing in your future man.

I think something drastic could be quite interesting; if anything at least you will add another story under your belt.
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Silva
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Thank you Ciph. That means a lot to me, especially tonight.
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Neshi
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Silva
 
That's very sweet, thank you. -hugs- Although, I don't really know what you mean by "people like you". I have very little to offer to the world or I would be employed by now, it's certainly not for lack of trying.

Cipher
 
And by "people like you," I can't speak for Neshi, but I think you have a lot to offer. Employment is not necessarily a good measure of a man. I've seen shitbags in important positions, and I've met lots of great people in humble situations. There is so much more to a person than the work they are currently in. Who knows what you could be doing in your future man.

Exactly. You're a wise, sensitive person and you're a good speaker. The way you speaking arouses people's interest and your views are interesting, balanced and concrete. It'd be a great waste if you didn't do anything about it, really. Believe in yourself, man!

Silva
 
Although, the topic of me moving out to share a house with him in a much bigger city came up at that very brunch table. I do think I'd perish in such a change of lifestyle, but on the other hand I might just have to throw myself in the deep end or nothing will ever change. I do want to meet the right lady, and make lots of friends, but it's impossible in this town, it really is.

I know this feeling but it's worth a try. That's why I used a word "brave", just do not be afraid what life has to offer for you! It all may look scary but maybe it's a beginning of a new, better story in your life?;) I'll keep my fingers crossed!
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RedliwLedah
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It was a nice to have. Was always open to it if it stopped by, but was, and probably still would be for now, content to be missing it. I have it now though and it's pretty cool though. 10/10 its okay
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Captain Izayoi
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I already have love and pretty much have had it at all times. I honestly have trouble sympathizing with my peers who don't. I'd say it's important only because I can't remember the last time I didn't have any.

Super Edit: I've been gone so long I mix up edit and quote. GG.
Edited by Captain Izayoi, Apr 27 2015, 03:55 PM.
I HAVE COME HERE TO KICK ASS AND TALLY POINTS.

AND THE POINTS DON'T MATTER.
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